So, you want to call yourself her Master? Her Sir?
Before you claim the title, ask yourself this:

What’s her favorite color?
What’s something that always makes her laugh?
What are her goals? Her dreams? Her fears?

Do you know what she likes to do when she wants to relax?
Do you know what helps her after a bad day?

Can you recognize when she…

needs extra love, even when she won’t say it aloud?
Can you tell when she’s bothered, even if she tries to hide it?

Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up tight in your arms?
Are you the safe place she can go when the world feels too heavy?

Can you recognize when she…

Does she feel safe enough to open up to you?
Does she believe she can tell you anything — without judgment or fear?

Do you punish from a place of love and caring?
And Do you correct her only to guide her away from harm, not to feed your ego?

Do you see her as a whole person — complex, complete, and worthy ?
Do you make her feel cherished, protected, respected

You protect her.
You care for her.

Can you recognize when she…is a Good Girl just for you ?

Being Master or Sir is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness. respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her Master or Sir. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that.

This should be the language of submission—not spoken, but felt.

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